Hellos come with a Side of Goodbye

Hey so we take off on tour on Tuesday - that's 3 more nights, 2 more days from now and everyone's asking me if I'm excited.  And I am.  Totally.  Totally, off the charts THRILLED out of my mind to…

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WAMP Women's Art & Music Performance series

Music & Art by Women for Women WAMP, the Women's Art and Music Performance series, just finished it's first season at The Pride Center of NJ.  The season went really great.  Opening with Antara from Vermont and moving through to… Read more
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My Identity

The butch I'm dating just posted this amazing article and photos on FB.  Check this out.  Such inspiring identities.  And it's got me thinking about my identity.  I've been pretty happy with dyke -- and when I first came…

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My Amazing Kid

Yesterday, my kid and I were speakers at a PFLAG meeting (parents and friends of lesbians and gays) that we were invited to so we could talk about our experiences.  My kid, Z, is a genderfuck/genderqueer/gender-questioning, pansexual.  He's been out…

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One Cure for Depression

I've been in therapy, I tell people, "since I'm 15."  That would mean that I've spent 27 years in therapy.  That would be 27 x 52 = 27, 1404 sessions, plus the years when I went twice per week, minus…

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The Other

I have a piece that I do at the end of OUTwordlyFabulous called "Other."  It's about not making people who are different from us into "others," into "thems."  It's about loving haters and loving people who make us their others…

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Demonstrate

Pandora Scooter is excused from protesting today,

Her dog ate her self righteous indignation.

 

Pandora Scooter cannot demonstrate today,

She caught a bad case of nuance yesterday and has been up all night throwing up her strident black and white…

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Dating Men

For a dyke, I have a lot of experience dating men.  And this isn't pre-coming out dating experience.  This is experience that I've gotten post-coming out.  For the past seven years, I've dated (one-offs, or two-offs) bunches of men…

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Apply Apply Apply

I would think that it's enough of a chore to write the show, but no, there is a huge number of applications that have to be completed in order to get the work out there.  And the deadlines for these…

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Research Research Research

I'm at the beginning of a 300 plus page book called Christianity, Social Tolerance and Homosexuality, which I'm reading for my new show Fags & Jesus Freaks.  The book is about how we often ascribe homophobia to religion, but that…

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